RIPPED!!!!!!

Saturday 27 May 2017


Poor girl!! We need to buy you some new trousers mama said...
No mama, that's what's in vogue now. They are supposed to be that way I said.

You probably can't afford new ones she further said.
Rips are cool mum, its hard to explain. I said.

This was clearly an example of an extreme generation gap, hence the conversation was lost.

Today, ripped jeans are fashionable. In fact, the more ripps, the merrier.

Now they are even labelled destroyed on the tags.
That means they were manufactured to be torn up.


And yes that's identified as cool for most of us. But in my mama's eyes, the reverse is the case.
Instead, its a public declaration of being homeless, an automatic target for pitty and an outward cry of total desperation.

For mama, it didn't matter what I said, she'd never understand.


Life, just like the ripped jeans can be very torn up.

It can seem destroyed sometimes, it can appear to be falling apart, yet it is still put together.


Yes sometimes it can be hard to explain how it can possibly be restored to someone who doesn't understand how the pain could ever make sense.

God created us knowing that we'd be broken and torn.

Originally, we were not manufactured to be that way in the beginning. But when sin entered into the world, so did pain, brokenness, ripps and tears.

Yet God still managed to turn it all into something beautiful through Jesus.


Jesus came to restore the brokenness of the world. Although the world is still torn and full of sin, plus terrible things still happen everyday, Jesus made a way to see it all differently - from a new perspective.

He made it so that God will see his perfection not our destruction.

He made it so that we could be restored and beautiful once again.


Just like a pair of wrecked jeans are still put together to form a nice outfit, so our lives are just walking wrecks still put together, through Jesus, to form beauty.

Jesus read our tags, he knew we were destroyed, but he saw that we were worth buying even at the cost of his own life.

He proved that just because something is broken, doesn't mean it can't be made beautiful.


Even though our lives are ripped up, falling apart, complete messes, Jesus can restore us still, and call us worthy of loving. Worthy of using for a greater purpose.


Without Jesus, we are just a pair of ripped up jeans, with a baggy T-shirt, scruffy socks and a cowboy hat.

With Jesus, we are a pair of ripped jeans, a nice trendy top, perfectly rugged sneakers and sweet shades.



Its a match made in heaven and in the end, its all put together just right.

After all is said and done, a life with Jesus, including the brokenness, the ripps, patches and all will end up beautiful.

MY KIMONO, FASHION & FACTS OF LIFE!!!

Wednesday 3 May 2017

Hey guys,

Happy new Month!.

Hope you had a nice long weekend cuz I did myself. What did you get up to? I pretty much did something I hadn't done in a while...I went OUT!! Yup! You read that right! It sure felt great hanging out with friends at the jam rock event and a night of a thousand laughs. I do hope more of these could happen so I can finally say I have a life!

Speaking of life, isn't it amazing? Practically almost everything teaches us something about life. Let's talk fashion for example.


I'm not one whose usually all "dress up and slay" but I do like to look simple and nice, which to me, is my definition of fashion.

Over the weekend however, feeling very fashionable with myself, I decided to rock my black kimono which I've had for a while, a tank top and a nice pair of jeans. I remember asking my self in front of the mirror "Gurl!!..where the heck is your fashion sense?" Isn't it better to rock this with a dress, a skirt or some nice looking shorts?" After several back and forth's, I realized it didn't matter what I wore..cuz together, it all looked good on me whichever way.















Something about fashion and life?

Several pieces working together are more significant than each piece.

A great outfit is worth more than a sum of its individual parts, and the way pieces play off of one another is key to a great style. This interrelationship is also true in accomplishing most things in life. We can have much greater impact working with others than alone, or as I've grown fond of saying the power of "we" achieves infinitely more than the power of "me".

A few “exceptional” pieces give you more than a closet full of “okay” pieces

A problem I always had back in the days was getting "exceptional" pieces which led to having loads of clothes but having no clothes at all. After some growth and much decluttering recently, I do not have a closet bursting with clothes. I have a few nice things, all pieces I really love and can wear a long time. This offers me simplicity, focus and easy organisation, and when I apply this same methodology to my life, I am freed up to live a life of much greater purpose, rather than a jumble of activities of marginal value. I believe it is best to choose a few high-value pursuits and let go of the rest. Or what do you think?


What facts of life can you learn from fashion?



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